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Saturday, May 25, 2013

A Little Late

This is a little late, but a big thank you to Nana and Yoinkie for sending along Lucy's birthday gifts. For some reason my phone's picture wouldn't text this pic to you guys, but here is Lucy approximately 3 minutes after she opened the package. She LOVES this dress!


Monday, May 20, 2013

Hazelwood 5K

This weekend we headed to Marion after Lucy's birthday extravaganza. On Sunday morning we all got ready and took part in a local 5K that supports a women's shelter. It is an all female race, and it is actually the first road race I ever ran way back when Lucy was 1 year old.

The girls started by doing a kids fun run. It was much shorter than anticipated, but it ended with a bag of candy so everyone was pretty happy.

Caroline letting the announcer know she is 3 years old



It was sweet - Lucy ran with this girl the
whole way but slowed down at the end so that
this girl could beat her

Really excited about candy and flowers




Then it was the adults' turn. Cookie and Mrs. Cook and I all did the 5K and had an excellent cheering section.

Pre Race

Cheering on the runners at the finish line

On the home stretch





What a fun day!

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Birthday Party, Take 2

This weekend Lucy had a birthday party with two classmates. One of her classmates was nice enough to host, and the party that her mother put on was pretty impressive. The kids all had a blast, and both of our girls were pooped by the end.

It was a Little Mermaid theme

The decorating was impressive


The birthday cake

The birthday girls

Who doesn't love a bouncy house or two?

Lucy and some friends

All of the girls sitting down for pizza

A photo opp FAIL

Blowing out the candles

The birthday girl enjoying some cake

Farewell to JTW

Last weekend was crazy for us. Steve had the girls alone Thursday through Sunday, and I was in Seattle to attend my grandfather's funeral. My grandfather, JTW, lived 96 amazing years. Although he was frustrated at the end by his limited independence, I think that we should all be as lucky to live so long and to be so mentally engaged and clear that late in life.

I know that I knew Grandpa in a limited capacity. I didn't know him as a young professional as many of his former patients shared at his rosary. I didn't know him as a father or uncle as many of my family members who attended the funeral did.

I knew my grandpa as an active retiree who loved his family, playing and watching tennis, and political banter. I remember him visiting the nuns in the local parish and attending church each weekend while Grandma sang in the choir. I remember him as a man who loved to chat with anyone that he came across and who always had a sense of humor no matter the situation. And finally, I remember him, along with Grandma, as being a person who made it financially possible for me to do things that expanded my horizons, including (but not limited to) attending college after high school.

Grandpa took care of everyone around him, and while he was unafraid to share his opinions, no one can deny that the man always had everyone's best interests in mind. He will be missed by many, but I think he is in a better place.

As was written in his obituary and spoken at his funeral, "Well done, good and faithful servant." Well done, indeed. I will miss you, G'pa.

Enjoying a drink on his 95th birthday

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Soccer

There was an article circulating a while ago that Steve and I both read. I won't bore you with specifics, but authors interviewed athletes who overwhelmingly said that their parents saying, "I love to watch you play" was a hugely positive factor in their careers and their enjoyment of the game.

Steve and I were athletes back in our day, and unfortunately for our girls, are both fiercely competitive. That being said, we are both very aware that we should not force our own interests upon the girls. Lucy has expressed a desire to play soccer, and we have signed her up again this spring.

Each weekend she plays, and after every game we are very sure to send a message that will support her and make her feel good: we love to watch you play and it is the best part of our weekend.

Luckily, it isn't a lie: it really is so much fun to watch her play.

Strutting around the field

Playing with her guys

Being a wackadoo

She's already much cooler than I am


Hydrating

Very proud of herself after her game

Team photo

Being silly

Not many action shots this week. It's nice to take photos, but it's so much better to just watch and enjoy. Well done, Goose!

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Just Like Daddy

Caroline grabbed one of Steve's ties and proclaimed, "I just like Daddy!" She accessorized with some hair bows from Nana and Yoinkie and had quite a look going.




Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Before and After

This weekend we did quite a bit of work outside. I actually got it together enough to do a before and after shot. Although, it isn't really "after" yet as we do have a few small changes to make in this area of the house.

You may have seen a corner of our house in a previous post:



 Mismatched bricks and pavers and a whole lot of wasted space.


Here is the corner about half way through the removal process.






Here are the new pavers all put in and many potted plants.


Not a bad start!